Been Scammed By A Phony SD? Report Him Here!

BYE BYE, BAD GUY…

In these troubled economic times, many women are looking for other ways to make ends meet, and some of the more enterprising sisters out there have found themselves a Sugar Daddy. If you’re one of those lucky ladies who has found a wealthy, generous, wonderful man to mentor and help support you, congratulations!

But as any successful Sugar Babe knows, you’ve got to kiss a few frogs to find that one Prince Charming.

In our search for the perfect SD, we run across a lot of guys who pretend to be high-rollers when in fact they are not at all what they represent themselves to be. Many of these men are serial predators who stalk SD dating websites such as Seeking Arrangement, Seeking Millionaire, SugarDaddie4Me, and Sugar Daddie looking for their next victim: a beautiful, vulnerable young woman who will fall for whatever fairy tale they spin.

Men such as these post profiles on SD dating websites, often using fake photos and multiple profiles to escape detection by ladies they have burned before. They lie about their income (easy to do since these dating websites utilize no verification process), claiming to be multi-millionaires, top industry CEOs, investment bankers, real estate moguls, famous celebrities, you name it…a mystique which quickly falls apart when they arrive for your first date in a 1992 Toyota, bring wilted flowers they just picked from a field, and their credit card is declined for the dinner bill.

Not all fake SD stories are humorous, though. While most of these guys are just harmless time-wasters trying to get laid, some of them are dangerous. We strongly encourage ladies who are currently pursuing a potential SD dating relationship to keep herself and her personal information protected at all times when meeting a new friend. You don’t know at first if he is a stalker, a rapist, a murderer, a total whack job, or just a controlling freak who wants to dominate your life. (Please read our personal safety for women page to help guide you through the various phases of SD dating while keeping yourself safe.)

This blog exists to keep Sugar Babes fully informed and safe. We are by no means anti-Sugar Daddy dating; in fact, this site is run BY successful Sugar Babes FOR Sugar Babes. The websites listed above can be very helpful tools in meeting a legitimate Sugar Daddy. We ourselves are members of several of the various SD/SB dating sites and have had excellent luck there. While the majority of men who post profiles online are genuine, it’s those few bad apples who are spoiling the entire apple cart, often enadangering the security and well-being of women.

As Craig’s List and the various SD/SB dating websites currently offer no recourse to women who have had a scary or unfortunate experience with a man they met through their sites, we felt it was time to take action.

We started this blog (which is totally independent and not affiliated with any of the websites listed above) so that women trying to find a REAL Sugar Daddy have a place to report the fakes and phonies; the time-wasters, the liars and the cheats, the bad guys and poseurs, the control freaks, and the truly dangerous.

If you’ve been burned by a man who represented himself as a Sugar Daddy, or if you had a bad or frightening experience with an SD or potential, we encourage you to report them here by posting a comment below. As long as these guys keep getting away with these scams, they will continue to burn, harass, or attack women. Only when we band together and raise our voices to out the bad guys will we finally be able to stop them.

All the fakes, flakes, stalkers, nutcases, and losers out there in the world of SD dating have made it so much more difficult for the GOOD GUYS to get a date, and have made it even more dangerous for Sugar Babes to navigate the already treacherous road of finding an honest, sweet Sugar Daddy. So let’s call the BAD GUYS out on their b.s. and expose them here so that potential SB’s will be alerted and hopefully not make the mistake another girl before her made!

ALL women looking for a Sugar Daddy should cross-reference this website and use the search box at the top of the page to research a potential SD candidate BEFORE agreeing to go out with him. Search his username or profile number to find out if he’s already been reported for bad behaviour with previous women — if you’ll take a few minutes to do this before accepting that first date, it could save you a lot of time and headaches. Who knows? It could even save your life.

TO REPORT A BAD GUY, CLICK HERE

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21 Responses to “Been Scammed By A Phony SD? Report Him Here!”

  1. M.B. Says:

    How many of you ladies in the US and Canada have gotten this generic spam email from Michael in toronto?

    I’ve gotten this exact same email THREE TIMES over the past two years!

    From: Sugar Daddy – 63412

    Subject: GREETINGS FROM TORONTO

    Just saw your profile and – needless to say -I was VERY impressed … with your appearance certainly but I also got the impression – just from your profile and picture – that you are also VERY intelligent!!

    I’m a photographer and videographer from TORONTO, Canada … I shoot for a number of major publications, most notably MAXIM, FHM and I do some work with PLAYBOY on their “Special Editions”. I travel extensively (USA, EUROPE and the CARIBBEAN mainly) and, while I work in an industry awash with beautiful women, I have grown increasingly disillusioned with the “shallowness” of it all. I am much more interested in spending my time with a woman who carries with her an aura of “inner beauty” as well.

    I LOVE anything to do with the water (beaches, swimming, scuba, sailing … hell, a kid’s wading pool if that’s all I got!!). I also enjoy fine dining, first-class travel and exploring exotic locales … off to Thailand and Bali next month!! I LOVE to PAMPER and PLEASE but, hey, I guess that goes with the territory on THIS site!! I’m 42, 5’10″, 170, brown hair, brown eyes … work out regularly and am fighting “Father Time” with all that I’m worth!!

    Although this would be a “Sugar-Daddy” type arrangement, I’m still looking for someone that I “click” with and have some chemistry with …. as I’m sure you are. You’re far too classy a woman to devote your time to someone who you don’t admire and respect … ditto for me. I am extremely picky about who I devote my precious little bit of spare time to so you should accept the fact that I have chosen to contact you as a sincere compliment.

    I would like to find someone who is available to travel and who enjoys the finer things in life …. fine dining, first-class travel, luxury hotels, shopping, etc. It’s not the ultimate but I must admit I do get a quiet sense of inner satisfaction when I look over at my companion and know that every single thing she is wearing is something I picked out for her …. and I’ve been told I have EXCELLENT taste. I LOVE sexy clothes … lingerie …. clubwear, etc. ….. on YOU by the way (just making sure!!) and I’ve been told by women that I’m “the last of the romantics”.

    I travel approximately 7 to 10 days per month …. mainly the Caribbean and Europe …. and to California on business. I take care of all the travel arrangements, of course …. you just have to show up and look your best!! (Who says it’s a MAN’S world!!)

    I’m considered passionate, sensuous and giving …. I get pleasure by giving pleasure and I LOVE spending time with someone who does the same. I’m very supportive of those I choose to spend time with and I truly enjoy playing a “mentor” type role in the lives of my loved ones.

    If any … or all …. of this appeals to you, can you please contact me by phone or e-mail … or feel free to leave me a number where you can be reached. (A TEXT to my cell works fine to “break the ice” too.) Let’s get to know each other and see where it goes from there. (If you’re up for it, I’d actually prefer if you just give me a call … I’m not into endless e-mails back and forth and I’m a VERY easy person to talk to.)

    VERY BEST WISHES,

    MICHAEL

    (private email home and cell numbers deleted)

    btw, I’ve sent him a reply twice and never get a human response. I think he is a computer, not a person!

    His profile is here:

    http://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/detail.php?id=63412

    Username: MichaelSMail

  2. CBnTX Says:

    OMG, I got that same email from Michael in toronto, too! He sounded kinda interesting so I wrote back and called the number, absolutely nothing.

    Don’t know what this guy is selling, or what the scam is…maybe he’s just trying to get some hot chicks to pose nude for his uh, photography business? Trying to tellthem they’re going to be america’s next big porn star?

    Anyway, really helpful site. Thank you for doing this!

  3. CBnTX Says:

    sugargurl, the guy you reported as Rich has at least one other profile on the Seeking Arrangementsite. he is also known as username James, profile id 235177. He contacted me in Sept. 08.

    I notic his “James” account and profile have now been deleted. So he’s back as “Rich?” Wow, thanks for the info…good to know!

  4. Julia Says:

    There is another dude on Seeking Arrangement who is running a scam like Michael in Toronto, he’s trolling for girls who will model for his um, “erotic photography buiness?” He’s not offering any pay, of course!

    He goes by the handle “dfwphotographer.” Not worth 5 minutes of yr time.

    Unless of course you actually WANT to travel to Ft. Worth and take your clothes off for some perv…….

  5. just a sb Says:

    Stay away from Doctor4Fun or Dr4Fun on SUGARDADDIE.COM. He is a short 35yr Persian trauma surgeon from London that completely scams women! He will romance you and even offer to buy your ticket out there, but he is only into Phone Sex and trying to get naked pictures from you- and will completely lead you on for months. Not worth it!!!

  6. SmartSugarBabe Says:

    This just in from the HOLY CRAP department…the Seeking Arrangement site is NOT secure, according to a recent article in the Washington Post.

    http://voices.washingtonpost.com/securityfix/2009/01/move_over_client_9.html?hpid=news-col-blog

    Think twice before using this site, ladies. Unless you want everybody and their dog reading your private messages!

    ARTICLE TEXT:

    A popular Web site that helps connect young women with so-called “Sugar Daddies” has fixed a major security hole that – apparently since its inception two years ago — allowed anyone with a Web browser to view the private negotiations between site members.

    This discovery highlights the potential privacy pitfalls of placing too much personal information online, and fully trusting social networking sites. Most online communities, such as Facebook, provide residents a way to keep their public and private online personas separate. In many cases, when a breach between those two worlds occurs, it’s because the user misconfigured or misunderstood their privacy settings, as I’ve documented with users of Google’s Calendar service. But when the social networking community itself is responsible for the misconfiguration, the results could be disastrous and long-lasting.

    Seekingarrangement.com, an adult social networking site that boasts some 300,000 registered users, contained a weakness that allowed anyone to view any conversation thread between two members of the site merely by manipulating one or two characters in the Web site’s Internet address.

    Worse yet, potential snoops did not need to be logged into the site to read members’ private messages. In addition, identifying the parties on either end of the transaction also was simple and could be done by non-members.

    Security Fix alerted the Web site on Friday, after being contacted by a security professional who asked not to be named. Several days later, the hole was fixed.

    Brandon Wade, the ex-Microsoft employee who founded the company, placed part of the blame on outside software developers, but said internal testing should have caught the oversight.

    “We didn’t catch this in our testing phase, which means we need to put our entire Web site through another round of testing to make sure any other loopholes are covered,” Wade said.

    Such a searchable trove of personal information could be a dream find for extortionists. Consider the case of Mike, a 34-year-old, successful banker in New York who signed up at the site last year. In an online conversation with an attractive 20-something blond woman, also from New York, Mike said he’s married with a 2-year-old daughter, and looking for a discreet partner, whom he’s willing to keep in comfort between $5,000 to $10,000 a month.

    He had posted the following on the site:

    “I’m fortunate to have done very well financially. I work long hours and travel often, so there isn’t that much time left for fun. I like my work, so I’m not complaining. But for those few spare hours a month when I have some free time, I enjoy spending time with attractive young women, whose company I enjoy and who I can spoil,” Mike wrote. “I had two affairs in the past few years but those got very complicated. I’ve decided that what I need instead is a no-strings attached friendship. Someone who enjoys spending time with me and appreciates the luxuries I can provide. I’m not looking for 10 sugar babbies. Just one perfect one. I’d love to chat with you and discuss this further. Also would love if you’d send one or two pics to [e-mail address omitted]. I’d be happy to then send you my pic.”

    Mike’s profile states his net worth as between $10 million and $50 million. When contacted at the mobile phone number he sent to his prospective companion, Mike was aghast that his conversations were available to anyone who knew how to look for them.

    “Certainly, that wasn’t my expectation when I signed up,” Mike told Security Fix. “If I wasn’t worried about extortion or anything else like that then, I am now.”

    Then there was the case of the married, 47-year-old president of an investment firm in Vancouver, Canada. In his profile, he writes about his ideal match: “Hair color, cup size, race or age matter very little. That we should really want to rip each other’s clothes off matters a lot.” The “annual income” field in his profile states $500,000 to $1 million, and his net worth is listed as $10 million to $50 million.

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  7. Shelly Says:

    I know of several women who got their memberships canceled/kicked off the SugarDaddy.com site because she was trying to help women…(posting alerts on bad guys, circulating backchannel lists of scammers to avoid) Well, the same thing just happened to me on the OTHER SD site SugarDaddyForMe.com..I circulated a list as well trying to give women a head’s up and I was kicked off the site in less than 24 hours time.. poof I was gone.. no one to contact to tell them what happened to me.. to top it off the site has still left my profile to attract business!!!!!

    I had another list coming out that had even more perverts and fakes on it.. the sites are a waste of time and only provide lots of $$ for the owners. Very few women actually meet a real Sugar Daddy on those sites.. they are glorified dating sites with tons of perverts! Ripped off in Ohio. excommunicated from the SugarDaddyForMe.com site

  8. Dispicable human rolled into a SUGAR DADDIE Says:

    The sole purpose of this blog entry is to expose a now, very misfortunate man. This should be read by all women who have ever been or are on these sites:

    http://www.sugardaddie.com/ http://www.millionairematch.com/ http://www.fling.com/ http://www.match.com/ http://www.adultfriendfinder.com/ http://www.seekingmillionaire.com/ http://www.modelfriends.com/ http://www.alt.com/ http://www.exotickink.com http://www.spanktv.com

    Ok, this “mans” usernames include: “ALPHAWOLF” “LAWOLF” “NYCTOLAMAN” “BHWOLF” “DOMWOLF4U”

    I would highly recommend that all of you girls stay away from him. He is controlling and only cares if his sexual needs are met and not so much about making a girl happy. His profiles say that his age is any where from 35 years to 40 years. He is actually 45, have seen the proof on his liscense. He is very manipulative and cannot apologize for anything without making excuses for himself. He has to be in control. He bruised my arm up for a well 2 weeks after having a dispute. And not to mention that he has a communicable disease. I will let you use your immagination on that. This is a man who has no respect for women and chooses to date younger girls, I just turned 22. I am 5’9 and weigh 125 lbs and he told me to lose 15 lbs! This is a man whos only goal in life is to make HIMSELF happy, not any girl.

    I even read one of his past emails to a women that he wanted to wake her up in the middle of the night to pee in her mouth! SICK!

    I wrote this blog to caution all of the innocent females out there who get taken advantage of every day.

    PS. If you ever see him at the Equinox in W. Hollywood…then wipe down the equipment after him REALLLY GOOD!

  9. Dispicable human rolled into a SUGAR DADDIE Says:

    The sole purpose of this blog entry is to expose a now, very misfortunate man. This should be read by all women who have ever been or are on these sites:

    http://www.sugardaddie.com/ http://www.millionairematch.com/ http://www.fling.com/ http://www.match.com/ http://www.adultfriendfinder.com/ http://www.seekingmillionaire.com/ http://www.modelfriends.com/ http://www.alt.com/ http://www.exotickink.com http://www.spanktv.com

    Ok, this “mans” usernames include: “ALPHAWOLF” “LAWOLF” “NYCTOLAMAN” “BHWOLF” “DOMWOLF4U”

    I would highly recommend that all of you girls stay away from him. He is controlling and only cares if his sexual needs are met and not so much about making a girl happy. His profiles say that his age is any where from 35 years to 40 years. He is actually 45, have seen the proof on his liscense. He is very manipulative and cannot apologize for anything without making excuses for himself. He has to be in control. He bruised my arm up for a well 2 weeks after having a dispute. And not to mention that he has a communicable disease. I will let you use your immagination on that. This is a man who has no respect for women and chooses to date younger girls, I just turned 22. I am 5’9 and weigh 125 lbs and he told me to lose 15 lbs! This is a man whos only goal in life is to make HIMSELF happy, not any girl.

    I even read one of his old emails to another woman saying that he was going to wake her up in the middle of the night to pee in her mouth! SICK!

    I wrote this blog to caution all of the innocent females out there who get taken advantage of every day.

    PS. If you ever see him at the Equinox in W. Hollywood…then wipe down the equipment after him REALLLY GOOD!

    Feel free to email me.

  10. Real Lady Says:

    Dear Ladies,

    I met this disgusting man (FRANCESCO PASARDI 41 years old, CEO and President of some worldwide Italian furniture company) who lives in Manhattan, NYC through seekingarrangement.com . He pursued me for 2 months for an arrangement and since I have never had done anything similar before I was being very cautious about everything. I made an extensive research about this little man and he indeed matched to be who he claimed to be. His profile on SA is gone but he used to have in the allowance amount $10,000- $20,000 and he had a note saying : $15,000 in cash + 5,000 shopping allowance.

    Now listen to this; We agreed an amount of $20,000 per month + shopping allowance. He was on a rush to start the arrangement (meaning, have sex the first time we met) he was actually putting pressure but I bluntly refused . He had to travel to the Middle East in business and invited me to go but there was no way I d go travel with a complete stranger. Also, I was still living with my husband and travel last minute would arise suspicions. We made plans to start the arrangement when he was back. Meanwhile I made several questions and everything he was saying it was matching with his eyes, body language etc…He said that he was very generous and that I would be paid through his company, that I d be listed as a consultant in the books…I d get a W 2 tax form from his company and also the only people to know would be his accountants but that wouldn’t be a problem because Francesco Pasardi is the one making decisions and it’s nobody business what we do during the time I m with him as his consultant…One of our following conversations he said I could be paid through wire or corporate check and that I could choose which one.

    Well the day to start the arrangement came and I was very nervous about it…I actually thought in cancelling but give it another deep thought and conclude that I had no other choice. I need this money desperately So off I go to prepare to meet the little piece of sh** at his loft apartment in Grand Street, Soho. The day before I did mani, pedi, waxing etc…I even bought 2 pairs of shoes Dior and Gucci to take with me as he loves high heels on women….GRRRRRRRRRRR I used my Barneys CC for that. He text me before I go meet him saying ” Darling please don’t forget the routing number, account number etc so I can make the wire. I can’t wait to see you again”

    Once I get to the loft I advise him that a gf knew about it and that she had his number , address etc and should be calling me any minute. He actually invited her to come over to meet him if it made me feel more comfortable I said it was not necessary. So he served me champagne, asked me if i was hungry etc…We talked while drinking and the music was on so after about 20 min things kind of start naturally. I offer him a massage and one thing leads to the other.

    Resuming: After we had the lousy intercourse we talked for a while I suggested a round 2 which was useless and welcomed but everything was ok, he started talking about this summer how great it would be in his Hamptons house, that i d help him organize glamorous parties and for me not to worry because by that time i d be already divorced and have my own place to live. Right…He had the nerve of asking me on my way out if I’d prefer to go shopping with him or alone because of my marital status…

    So when I m about to leave I ask him when should I expect the wire in my account…he said very serious and with a business look ” Tomorrow my accountant will make the wire so it should be in your account in a couple of days. Do you think we could meet tomorrow night again?…I said: Unfortunately no baby, its too last minute and I already got raised eyebrows for changing plans for today.

    All this happened 1 week ago. I have been calling, text emailing him since Wednesday which was supposed to be they day the 20K would be in my account. No answer. The man disappeared I don’t think he’s dead or in the hospital. All I can think off is that he lied to me big time…I feel emotionally and physically taken advantage off. I ve been crying non stop for days now without knowing what to do. I know it’s my fault for trusting someone I don’t know but unfortunately thats how I am…and I never thought someone would go to the extreme of putting so much effort and detail into things including the involvement of his company and make it as a business arrangement and pursuing me for 2 months for a 1 time only. That is ridiculous…this is Manhattan. Plenty of beautiful women willing to open their legs in a first date.

    Anyway, I feel exploited and I do not want to let this go without trying to get my money or at least to give him a taste of what kind of damage he did to me…emotionally and financially. I have all the information about his company and the company that bought his company…I have board director emails, accountants and so on…He doesn’t know I have this info. Shall I write an email to everyone on those companies explaining what he has done. That he committed to hire me as an employee of his company and pay me 20,000 USD for consultancy services? I have emails and texts proving that we started an arrangement. I can just copy those into the email so everyone can see.

    What do you think ladies? Do you have any other suggestions on what I could do to get my money or you think I will never get it? This is not my style at all and all I want is my money but if I m not getting it I won’t just shut up and be quiet…I will at least make him look bad in front of all his work colleagues and hopefully get him fired.

  11. Christy Says:

    Watch out for this fraud, Steve Fredericks from seekingarrangement.com, he is listed as living in New York, Fort Myers, Wyoming and New Hampture. He claims that his gradfather developed Rolaids and that he has extensive trusts from his family and makes a great living by his 3 other businesses through Fredericks, Inc. He varies his age between 34-37 when he is actually 42-45 but that isn’t even the bad part. He has NO money and NO business looking for a sugar babby. I do have a picture of him if you request it and I will gladly share it. I wish I knew how to put it in this posting. He lists his SB allowance between 10-20K monthly and offers a 3 to 5 year contract. Oh my goodness, where do I begin? He didn’t show up in my town like he was supposed to. The first time he got sick and the following week when he was scheduled to arrive, he was a no-show. The next day he calls, claiming he was in a car wreck and cannot fly so he will purchase a flight for me. Mind you, this is after promising me the world. He wants to go to Disney and he says he booked the Marriott Resort. Okay, I arrive, he is driving a 5 year old Jeep Cherokee, all dirty inside. His bottom teeth were rotten from dipping or something. He says he got transfered from the Marriott to another 4 star resort, which ends up being a motel….oh my God! I slept in the second bed in that motel the first night and booked us at a resort the next day, he complied, only so he could try to get some action from me. Stupid me, falls for his lies about traveling to my town the following Monday to open an account in my name. He e-mails me the itenerary to confirm his authenticity though it was really just a copy of the flights. I checked with the airline, he was not confirmed and when I confronted him, he disappeared.

    Note to the unexperienced Sugar Babby – Do not consemate the arrangement until it has been fully executed financially. There are many scammers out there who will pay for your ticket, the hotel and your meals and send you home with nothing but a bad taste in your mouth because you just got scammed. Please if this has happened to you, come forward list this scum bag and protect your fellow SB.

    Good luck to all of you. I hope everyone find their perfect match!

  12. Ripped off in Florida Says:

    If you encounter an ad on Craigslist or Backpage with the title “Seeking My Sugarbaby, I know you’re out there” please please please stay way from him! He will claim he is in the military, is married, has a “secret job” he cannot break which if he tells you he’ll have to “kill you”…All he wants is to sleep with you and then he’ll tell you he will pay for your mortgage/rent….email you and ask you for your mortgage information or better yet, your address so he can mail you the payments….I know of two emails he uses. He uses david-phillips@hushmail.com or chillin@hushmail.com. He’ll call you through a computer which you can never call back and he’ll never answer your call once he’s had his fun.

  13. Real Lady Says:

    Dear Ladies,

    I met this disgusting man (FRANCESCO PASARDI 41 years old, CEO and President of some worldwide Italian furniture company) who lives in Manhattan, NYC through seekingarrangement.com . He pursued me for 2 months for an arrangement and since I have never had done anything similar before I was being very cautious about everything. I made an extensive research about this little man and he indeed matched to be who he claimed to be. His profile on SA is gone but he used to have in the allowance amount $10,000- $20,000 and he had a note saying : $15,000 in cash + 5,000 shopping allowance.

    Now listen to this; We agreed an amount of $20,000 per month + shopping allowance. He was on a rush to start the arrangement (meaning, have sex the first time we met) he was actually putting pressure but I bluntly refused . He had to travel to the Middle East in business and invited me to go but there was no way I d go travel with a complete stranger. Also, I was still living with my husband and travel last minute would arise suspicions. We made plans to start the arrangement when he was back. Meanwhile I made several questions and everything he was saying it was matching with his eyes, body language etc…He said that he was very generous and that I would be paid through his company, that I d be listed as a consultant in the books…I d get a W 2 tax form from his company and also the only people to know would be his accountants but that wouldn’t be a problem because Francesco Pasardi is the one making decisions and it’s nobody business what we do during the time I m with him as his consultant…One of our following conversations he said I could be paid through wire or corporate check and that I could choose which one.

    Well the day to start the arrangement came and I was very nervous about it…I actually thought in cancelling but give it another deep thought and conclude that I had no other choice. I need this money desperately So off I go to prepare to meet the little piece of sh** at his loft apartment in Grand Street, Soho. The day before I did mani, pedi, waxing etc…I even bought 2 pairs of shoes Dior and Gucci to take with me as he loves high heels on women….GRRRRRRRRRRR I used my Barneys CC for that. He text me before I go meet him saying ” Darling please don’t forget the routing number, account number etc so I can make the wire. I can’t wait to see you again”

    Once I get to the loft I advise him that a gf knew about it and that she had his number , address etc and should be calling me any minute. He actually invited her to come over to meet him if it made me feel more comfortable I said it was not necessary. So he served me champagne, asked me if i was hungry etc…We talked while drinking and the music was on so after about 20 min things kind of start naturally. I offer him a massage and one thing leads to the other.

    Resuming: After we had the lousy intercourse we talked for a while I suggested a round 2 which was useless and welcomed but everything was ok, he started talking about this summer how great it would be in his Hamptons house, that i d help him organize glamorous parties and for me not to worry because by that time i d be already divorced and have my own place to live. Right…He had the nerve of asking me on my way out if I’d prefer to go shopping with him or alone because of my marital status…

    So when I m about to leave I ask him when should I expect the wire in my account…he said very serious and with a business look ” Tomorrow my accountant will make the wire so it should be in your account in a couple of days. Do you think we could meet tomorrow night again?…I said: Unfortunately no baby, its too last minute and I already got raised eyebrows for changing plans for today.

    All this happened 1 week ago. I have been calling, text emailing him since Wednesday which was supposed to be they day the 20K would be in my account. No answer. The man disappeared I don’t think he’s dead or in the hospital. All I can think off is that he lied to me big time…I feel emotionally and physically taken advantage off. I ve been crying non stop for days now without knowing what to do. I know it’s my fault for trusting someone I don’t know but unfortunately thats how I am…and I never thought someone would go to the extreme of putting so much effort and detail into things including the involvement of his company and make it as a business arrangement and pursuing me for 2 months for a 1 time only. That is ridiculous…this is Manhattan. Plenty of beautiful women willing to open their legs in a first date.

    Anyway, I feel exploited and I do not want to let this go without trying to get my money or at least to give him a taste of what kind of damage he did to me…emotionally and financially. I have all the information about his company and the company that bought his company…I have board director emails, accountants and so on…He doesn’t know I have this info. Shall I write an email to everyone on those companies explaining what he has done. That he committed to hire me as an employee of his company and pay me 20,000 USD for consultancy services? I have emails and texts proving that we started an arrangement. I can just copy those into the email so everyone can see.

    What do you think ladies? Do you have any other suggestions on what I could do to get my money or you think I will never get it? This is not my style at all and all I want is my money but if I m not getting it I won’t just shut up and be quiet…I will at least make him look bad in front of all his work colleagues and hopefully get him fired.

  14. Nika Says:

    I know with sugardaddie.com I had a bad incident and it ended up being the cops that called and reported the guy that had an advert up there several years ago. The guy would talk girls into coming into meeting him for a possible sugar baby/sugar daddy relationship, put them up in a cheap hotel, then proceed to rape, beat, and steal from the girls, leave them without any food or means of communication and turn them into his prostitutes. If they didn’t make him so much money each week he would toss them out of the cheap assed hotel he put them up in and leave them with no money what-so-ever.

    This site wasn’t up at the time and lord knows I could have used some of the information here!

  15. Admin Says:

    As an experienced SB and owner of this blog, I feel sick to my stomach after reading the last several posts. It’s truly amazing the lengths some of these men will go to to scam or worse, seriously injure a woman.

    Sadly, most of these situations could have been avoided had the girls followed the #1 rule of screening potential sugar daddies:

    NEVER, EVER allow yourself to be alone with a potential SD until you have a secure arrangement (meaning he is already putting money in your bank).

    Just as in traditional dating, if you wouldn’t go home with a man on the first date, why would you go home with a man you just met just because he’s offering you some vague promise of financial reward?

    Let him put his money where his mouth is FIRST. Then (and only then) should you consider going anywhere other than a public place with him.

    And please don’t forget safety Rule #2: NEVER agree to travel to meet a potential SD in another city. If he’s serious and interested, he will have no problem flying to meet you for a first date. (After all, he’s the one with the money and the jet-set lifestyle, right? Let him prove it.)

    Don’t accept excuses about how he’s “too busy” to come meet you as a reason for you to fly to him. If he’s too busy to meet you in your city, he’s too busy for a relationship with you — and furthermore, he has NO CONCERN for your safety. So dump that chump!

    If you forget rule #1 or rule #2, you might just find yourself in the unfortunate position some of the above ladies did. Or kidnapped into a prostitution ring, for heaven’s sake! Don’t let it happen to you!

    Have fun and above all, BE SAFE in your search for a REAL SD!:)

  16. Dispicable human rolled into a SUGAR DADDIE Says:

    SWEETBICOASTAL is his new username on sugardaddie.com

    other usernames of his as mentioned before are alphawolf, lawolf, nyctolaman, domwolf4u, bhwolf

  17. christina Says:

    Hi, I haven’t been burned thank god but I’m a little irritated at this guy and he is a fake and he wasted my time so I’m gonna bust on his ass. He claims his name is Michael Johnson and he is frome Bellevue, Washington. He claims his company he started name is Federal Technolog Group. You can google it and there is a site. I dont’ really feel like going into it all but he is full of crap and I told him so. You can find him on the mutual arrangments site. He claims to be more than generous and he doesn’t smoke which he does. He claims he had a girlfriend for two years that is now married and calls him still and he gave her 10k a month. He’ll ask if you want a condo and if you would wear garter belts for him. That he wants a stunning girl that can get into his head. Don’t believe the hype. He’s a loser

    ciao

  18. ANNE Says:

    Randy Cole – RLCPlano Texas
    57 year old with no money! BEWARE He wants to give you money asks for your bank information and DL so he can have it wired. Runs a background check so he can stalk you. You never get a dime!
    His profile:

    Randy Cole – RLC PLANO TEXAS
    Gender: SugarDaddy
    AgeFun times ahead
    57-year-old SugarDaddy
    (My Birthday was 3 months ago) Gemini

    Plano, Texas, United States
    Seeking SugarBaby 30 – 42
    : 57

    Marital Status: Divorced
    Race: Caucasian
    Income: $200,000 to $300,000
    Body & Height: Average 5’10″ 178 cm

    Very intelligent, eclectic guy with diverse interests; from the opera to horses, Austin to Rome, Napa to Provence..love travel, fine wine, great food, snowy mountains and white sand beaches. Enjoy company on my travels and at local events. I very much enjoy the time I spend with my horses but also love my time spent in wine country, either here in the US or overseas. I wear Luchese and Edmunds, Cinch and Lauren. I don’t sweat the small stuff and abhor drama. Local ladies preferred.

    What I’m looking for
    SD/SB arrangement, maybe more..determine that as time goes on. You must be intelligent and mature, that gets my attention the quickest.

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  20. Lisa Says:

    Oh my God, I was scammed by him too! Almost the same story with me, same lies, same no-shows, false promises … I could go on and on! I just hope he doesn’t do it to anyone else!

  21. Admin Says:

    As if the idea of some guy peeing in your mouth isn’t awful enough (unless you’re into that sort of thing), a guy with a COMMUNICABLE DISEASE peeing in your mouth should scare anyone out of their wits!

    Sweet Jesus!

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